One Mistake

Mistake is a mistake whether it is a small one or big one, mistake is a mistake whether you made it once, twice, thrice or many times you got to pay the price because you made a mistake and no more excuses, who knows because of your mistake some one some where on the other side gets the effect. People often say that every mistake should be forgiven, is this true? should we forgive every mistake?

How do you feel when you made a mistake and you got the maximum impact? indeed you feel shattered. How do you feel when your mistake would take you to no mans land, how do you feel when your mistake gives you maximum impact its like you are in the middle of the sea and don’t know where to go? how do you feel when your mistake totally change your entire career and life?

In my perception one mistake could give you maximum impact, don’t know how it comes, don’t know how you make it whether intentionally or unintentionally.

People make mistakes and get the experience from them but what about the impact? isn’t it hard to defend the maximum impact? isn’t it you feel shattered when you make a mistake in a life turning time? the pain is much and its hard to handle.

We don’t learn anything until unless we made mistakes but big point is are we ready to face the big impact? we should always be ready though otherwise depression would caught us so badly.

Lets hope that we make mistakes and get the maximum experience from them and wont repeat the mistakes again in life and ready to face mistake effect.

Life is unpredictable if it is predictable then there will be no big enjoyment, so.. let us handle this unpredictable life.  

Social Networking

Ever since FB, Twitter & Blogs started ruling the web the total communication style has been changed a lot, i don’t think people now a days using messengers these days because power of social networking readily available on hands. Sharing messages, news, videos etc etc what not? more available you don’t need to turn on your laptop or PC. Everybody knows about social networking nobody needs big introduction i guess.

Well, are we utilizing this simplified communication system properly? a big question, those who addicted to FB or Twitter then they would say its a perfect tool for faster communication, indeed it is. A mobile phone with camera it has so many advantages and so many disadvantages too, I’d say every thing has different shades you should see them in a positive way and utilize the tool with good attitude, obviously we have witnessed so many MMS scandals and most of the people loosing privacy in this world.

When we talk about FB & Twitter we have been seeing so many fake ids and profiles every day obviously, a person with multiple accounts and having fun its like sadism, and a boy pretending like a girl making fool their friends etc etc these are all sadist things and it shows the person character and attitude to the world, there will be a big list of negatives i mean its not gonna end because we have different people in this world. FB is strict in terms of privacy policy and i don’t know why Twitter allowing to create multiple accounts.

I’ve seen so many people on twitter having multiple accounts, obviously there is block option you can block them whenever you want, but my actual point is why shouldn’t we utilize the good communicating system in a proper way? why the people easily attract to negative things rather than positive things? perhaps human psychology, if a person praising another person on the road nobody bothers everybody see just go away but if a person fighting with another person then people will gather in there and see the whole thing. Moral : people easily attract the negative rather than positive.

We have powerful & simplified communicating systems lets all utilize the same in a proper manner and get the maximum advantage from them. :-)  

Imagination - Beyond Your Expectation

I prefer to explore stuff which relates to reality, if you go through my all posts you can easily find out those are all relates to reality, i like reality and i always want to explore them, i cant imagine a story and write a post in there, but sometimes when i think about this why can’t i imagine something and post here, why shouldn’t i try something different but not possible for me. However, i can appreciate people who imagine more and give us the best, I’d like to dedicate this post to them.

We should appreciate lyricists and writers, their imagination is dam good i mean no one can ever beat them because they get the maximum from zero, take an example a movie story, if it is based on reality then its not a big issue but its an imaginary story then it would be a big deal, i guess writers & lyricists mind goes beyond normal people’s mind and start work from there for sure, that’s why they give us the best, its not an easy task to imagine something write a story or song, its a god’s gift and pure talent.

I always feel amazed when i see an amazing movie or read good content or heard a song, we should appreciate them because they have special qualities and power of Imagination.

I must admit this thing otherwise my post wouldn’t be so perfect, “LOST” a superb TV series I’ve ever seen in my entire life, i had watched all the six seasons without missing single episode, I’m still wondering how the writers have imagined such kind of story, I’d say sky was the only limit for them while writing the script, hats off…

This blog post dedicate to all the writers and lyricists across the world no matter who they are small, big, popular, or unpopular… once again hats off to their imagination.

Enemies At The Borders

Ever since my “In Search of Happiness” blog post was published I’ve started thinking about next blog post, i had so many topics in my mind but I’ve chosen “Enemies at the Borders” I’m sure this would give you a clear picture about India and how external affairs ministry working with neighbor countries. Lets have some interesting things about this.

Imagine a big difference when a person having good neighbors and a person not having good neighbors, after having hectic day everybody wants to have good sleep, how can a person have a great night when having bad neighbors around all the time? sure it would give lot of troubles, so you can apply the same for any country, how can a country be peaceful when having so many problems with neighbor countries?

We have Pakistan, China, Nepal, Bangladesh and Srilanka around us, can anyone tell us that India is having good relationship with these countries, i guess no one because we have big threat all the sides and we don’t have any friendly neighbor country, thats so sad for us and you can imagine how external affairs ministry working. We have big threat from Pakistan & China, everybody knows that, Pakistan has gifted part of POK land to China and China developing infrastructure in there and we are the people just watching those things without doing anything.

We have big rivalry with Pakistan from so many years and China always being hostile with us. China always support Pakistan rather than India and its a fact everybody knows that, why China prefer Pakistan rather India? simple we are developing so fast in every where and China feels that we are the tough contenders for them. Bangladesh formed as a new country only because of India, probably people in there just forgetting the history otherwise they wouldn’t do such harmful things against India. Ever since LTTE chief was killed in Srilanka and the way India highlighted Tamil people problems in there, it was given some impact between India and Srilanka for sure.

China’s eye on Arunachal Pradesh, Pakistan’s eye on Kashmir and border issues with Bangladesh, people are freely entering into India from Bangladesh border and working against India, supporting terrorism. Pakistan and Bangladesh are big threat for India and we need to work on this long term basis so that future will be peaceful.

This is the time for ruling Govt to focus on external affairs and should have strategic plan to control the damage done across the borders and built relationship.

In Search of Happiness

Everybody wants to be happy in this world, nobody wants pain isn’t it? but what is life without pain? its like having same kind of dish every time, isn’t it you feel bored when you having same kind of stuff again and again? definitely it does. Now, the big question, where can you find Happiness? i guess no one can ever give us the answer for this question because nobody knows where would happiness available.

A superb quote absolutely apt every one to be happy in life “give more and expect less”.

So, the big question is who wants to give more and expect less? we always expect more and feel upset when we are not getting the same, its just human psychology and no one is exceptional for this, we have lot of desires in life, I’d say unlimited desires.

Why don’t we try these things to be happy in life :

• weekend and weekdays we have adopted this culture ever since the software jobs are floated in our way and more of we usually adopt western culture just like that. So, how many of you spend more money for weekend parties and how many of you donate money for charity??? i shouldn’t be negative i guess 1% people would donate money for charity from weekend party expenses. Is that 1% good enough? I’m not against weekend parties but what I’m trying to say is why don’t we more responsible for society and help poor people, there are so many people in India living without food, they really need helping hands, why don’t we spend some money for them from party expenses, isn’t it good idea?? just imagine if you help a person and the person having food only because of you then don’t you feel happy?? definitely, this is called happiness you can get it very easily while doing this thing.

• Rich weddings, jewelry, designer clothes, luxury cars etc etc.. we have witnessed so many rich weddings in India, is that couple really needed to have rich wedding to spend their happy life? is that big fat Indian wedding surely give couple happiness in life? i don’t think so but we can’t stop them because we are in democratic country and there no barriers to spend their own money, why don’t we have simple wedding? what we get from simple wedding, so many things actually we can save power, food, lot of expenses etc etc and more of we can help people, as per government reports indicate that 59 million children between 6-14 years do not attend school because of poverty and various reasons, I’m sure a rich and luxury wedding can give education to many children in India when the same turned as simple wedding, when you providing education to poor children if you see honest smile on their faces don’t you feel happy??? this is called happiness.

• Have you ever seen poor people living without shelter in India? I’ve witnessed so many, i feel very bad that the gap of rich people and poor people in India is very high i don’t know what govt. taking measures to reduce the gap but sure its increasing day by day, the point is they are living in bad condition without having proper food, shelter etc etc.. how many of us spending one hour in a week for them from our busy life and providing clothes to them??? lets try this I’m sure this will give you more happy.

Happiness come to your life when you have helping hands, when you ready to treat people with respect, when you see rich people and poor people as same, when you give more and expect less.

Love people, respect everyone whoever they are rich or poor, show compassion.

Spiritual & Atheism

“Spiritual & Atheism” I’d say different content from me, I’ve never written a blog on this subject, its my first blog so lets have some interesting things about this.

Before starting this I’ve a question for you all “can a practical person believe in God” ?

I read somewhere ” if you believe in God then believe so blindly, if you have questions for God then you will be an atheist”  because questions often give you confusion and it takes you to the non belief side.

We have so many communities, so many religions, so many groups around the world, when you take an issue people often differ with others but sometimes they may have same opinion. But, when there is God matter, spiritual issues people always differ with others because there are believers and non believers out there in the world they will never ever agree with the same.

Why an atheist always differ with spiritual people? simple, in my perception atheists believe in reality rather than believing in unseen and unknown object.

How many of you go to temple or go to church or go to mosque or some other spiritual place to just say thanks to the God??? How many of you ask God “Please God just do this favor to me i will do anything for you”??? i just do not understand giving & taking concept between god and human being.

When there is everything going in your way then you will never think about God, but when you are in trouble or when you need something so badly then you move to God and try to be spiritual person. I don’t think its correct if you believe in God then you should be the same person all the time.

Atheists never change because they believe in reality and more of practical, no matter what situation they have, no matter when they fail or get success, the credit goes to them, some times i feel that its good to be an atheist because i don’t get a chance to blame God or give credit as well.

I just wanna see an atheist turned as a complete spiritual person because he / she can only tell us about both sides positives and negatives.

Why the spiritual people have negative feelings about atheists? aren’t they human beings? in a democratic country we should respect each and every ones decision. Often heard God is everywhere, if God is everywhere then why should we go to temple or church or mosque or some where???

Often heard God always test us.. is this true? everybody has different kind of phases in life good, bad, worst etc etc if we take bad period as God testing time then what it means… is that God really want us to see in a bad position? if God is a kind heart then why does the divine power give us bad period even though we deserve the best in life? why the luck play a key role in every ones life? God is luck for every one? if God and luck two different objects why should we pray God? I’ve lot of questions though surely I’m an atheist.

What is the big point if a person having a tag as believer or atheist as long as the person is doing good all the time, you don’t need a special tag for doing good things.

In my perception you always get happiness when you doing good things, money cant buy all the things in the world.

So.. no matter who you are either spiritual or atheist just be good, spread smile and share happiness :-)    

Sachin - Bharat Ratna

Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar the well known sports person and GOD for cricket lovers, he has been serving for the country from many years, he has lot of records in his name and probably no one would get those in coming years. It would be awful if i say more about Sachin because the world knows about him and people have been watching his game from many years, I’d say Sachin is a special person for cricket fraternity.

Now, the big question Sachin for Bharat Ratna, how many of you think that he is really deserve for Bharat Ratna???? if we have voting system for Bharat Ratna then I’m sure 90% people would be voted for Sachin because he is already a Bharat Ratna in every one’s heart.

Many players from India have expressed their feelings that Sachin should get Bharat Ratna for sure but nobody knows the constituency, there is no sports person ever got Bharat Ratna so far because as per Indian constituency the award is given for exceptional contribution in the fields of art, literature, science and social service. So, there is no sports category included and Sachin doesn’t qualify for Bharat Ratna and requires change in rules. The point is the Govt of India ready to change the rules for Sachin???? big question nobody knows. If the Govt of India change the rules then sure Sachin would be the first person to get Bharat Ratna from sports category.

When a person living in billion hearts then he doesn’t need any special recognition☺

IPL4 - 50 Days Long Schedule

IPL the big commercial cricket event in India, isn’t it? is that all right if i use the word “commercial”, i hope you guys don’t mind about this because everybody knows that IPL is a big commercial event.

Lets talk in positive side first, i’d say it was good start of IPL-4, we had witnessed a very close first game and i hope we would see this kind of close games through out the tournament because of different kind of format. It was good to see Anirudha Srikantha’s son opening batting for CSK and got half century, IPL is a good platform for youngsters to perform well and get a chance to represent their country.

So..the big question is don’t you think that this is too long schedule?? no doubt IPL would give us more entertainment and quality cricket but some how i feel that the tournament should be ended below 30 days.

One thing i didn’t like in this IPL that the way Setmax is presenting the game is bizarre, cricket is a gentlemen’s game and they would have been presented the game in a professional manner rather than filmy style, the extra innings is looks like a comedy show because the presenter is an artist he would have more knowledge on cricket, after all setmax is a movie channel its not a professional sports channel, we will have to adjust with this or its better for us to watch only the match rather than extra innings.

So… people of India enjoy the summer with IPL-4 :-)

Lokpal Bill - 42 Years Strugle

Anna Hazare is an Indian social activist born in 1938, a 73 year old person fighting against corruption in India and started indefinite hunger strike for implementation of Lokpal bill.

I was just going through the details of Lokpal bill on the net and i got shocked because first Lokpal bill was passed in the Lok Sabha in 1969, can you believe this?? it has been ages and ages but the same still not yet passed in Rajya Sabha. However, while it was pending in the Rajya Sabha, the Lok Sabha was dissolved, resulting the first death of the bill.

Everybody says that India is big democratic country but what the world thinking about India and corruption? we are ashamed to say that we got 87th place in corruption, earlier it was 84th place, good numbers… we have developed in corruption but not in controlling things like essential commodity prices.

I’m not going to blame any political party because all are same, nobody is perfect and bad part is that nobody is ready to do something for poor people, we can see aam aadmi budget before elections and then you can see more prices hike in every where.

Until unless there is no revolution from social activities like Anna Hazare then there would be no change in the Govt policies.

As a common man of India i’m asking myself why this Lokpal bill is taking too much time to get it passed??? it does mean that nobody should question Prime Minister, Minister, M.P’s, MLA’s etc etc, are not they elected by people of India?? these politicians think that we do not have any right to question them??? obviously people having the power, the power of vote but the vote is not giving such a good results to India and controlling the corruption.

Ever since the revolution started in Tunisia, Egypt, Syria, Libya etc etc, most of people talking like why don’t we start like that, its not possible in democratic country but we can fight against any govt in a democratic way, so… its just the beginning of a war against corruption in India and hoping that many more social activists, media, normal people etc etc would support and fight until victory.

May long live Anna Hazare.

Different Format - Spirit of the game is same

World Cup is over and Team India has given more memorable moments to cricket lovers and probably these moments live forever in each and every Indian heart.

IPL fourth edition is about to start in a few days, I’d say different kind of format but the spirit of the game is same. We have seen so much hype in IPL-4 auction, new teams have been introduced so we can expect more fun from IPL-4 in Indian summer.

What is IPL all about?? we have seen so controversies, match fixing issues etc etc Laith Modi had to resign after IPL-3, sometimes i feel that do we really need this kind of commercial games rather than players representing their country???

We had enjoyed 42 fabulous days, i personally feel that it was pretty long schedule it should have been ended below 30 days,  now everything is being commercial so why not World Cup 2011.

Get back to IPL-4, its going to be 50 days schedule i.e. 08-04-11 to 28-5-11, so how many people dislike this long schedule? i’m the first one though i really don’t like this pretty long schedule, can’t help because now everything is commercial.

What are we going to have from this IPL-4??? limited over cricket, more entertainment, cheer girls fun, batting domination in each and every game, more of you get excitement at the end of the day because all matches begin at night time you reach home sit back relax and excitement starts at your very own personal room isn’t it???

When we forget about negative things and start talking about positiveness then IPL would be the best one for young cricket players, its a perfect platform for them to prove themselves to get a chance to represent their country. Obviously they can learn so many things because they play with seniors and players from abroad as well, so its good opportunity for them to mix up things to perform well.

Its always proud moment for every player represent their country, hope many young players would perform well in this IPL-4 and give us more entertainment and quality cricket.

So people of India and world get ready for 50 days non stop entertainment :)